Become One

I have talked before about the roles of a husband and a wife. They are different but the two vital roles should play as equal partners. But a marriage is not a 50-50. If we base our ideas on the concept that marriage is about equality and splitting it 50-50 we are doomed to fail. We have to come together and both do our best to give a 100%. President Henry B Hyring said, "Our Heavenly Father wants our hearts to be knit together. That union in love is not simply an ideal. It is a necessity."

With this said, It is not just us each trying to give 100% it is making up for your spouse when they can't give a hundred percent. If we are suppose to become one, then you have to be the extra 20% if your spouse can only give 80% and so on. We have to work hard to complete one another not just giving out part and walking away for the situation or the day. We must serve one another and pick each other up when one of us can't stand on our own. We all have bad days, get tired, or are stressed, so we need to work hard to be there for each other and become one.